Friday, September 23, 2005

Relationship Cycle.

Soon another chapter of my education journey will be ending. I’m currently stuck in the midst of my exams, and thus unable to gather much thought to present you guys with anything. My apology. Just a short entry here.

Everything that life offers us, or vice versa, has a cycle. We’ve learnt the water cycle, the life cycle of animals/insects/plants, the menstrual cycle etc. Whatever it is, it’s a cycle. It’s a cycle we are revolved or involved in. What about man and woman? Is there a relationship cycle in between? Hear me out for this.

Relationship Cycle

Stage 1: Honeymoon Period.
I know I know. How cliché can that be isn’t it? Perhaps, that’s the period we probably enjoy most. The period where nothing else seems to matter anymore, apart from the person you’re emotionally attached to or whatever it is.

Stage 2: Quarrel

As honeymoon doesn’t taste sweet anymore, quarrels start to set in. Arguments are common when it comes to relationships. Misunderstandings, differences in opinion, attitude-wise, character-wise etc. are the culprits, as at this point all of them seem to become words. Such arguments can last minutes, hours, or even days and weeks.

Stage 3: Cold-shoulder
When both parties don’t seem to be able to make their stand, come to a conclusion, and sign the peace treaty, they get bored. Ignorant set in and they refuse to talk. Often, the woman will be expecting the call of apology, which sometime ended up quarrelling again. Often, the man will be too egotistical to take any initiative, and think he’s too right to be wrong and stuff.

Stage 4: Breaking up ‘or’ Peace treaty
Well, the heading speaks for itself already. Many a times, two resolutions are concluded. They are either breaking up or coming to a compromise. And when both agree, say the ‘peace treaty’ option, the honeymoon period (stage1) resumed, and the cycle relives.

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n said...

yeah life itself is a vicious cycle.

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